I am not sure how I feel about it yet.
On one hand, I am thrilled to have a chance to plan either of those parties, although I am not a huge planner.
On another hand, I am not sure HOW to fit the wedding part into it.
We are in the process of buying a house on a hill with a lot of land which is unusable. We can not have a backyard wedding. We can have a balcony wedding, sort of. And, I don't know how to arrange the whole thing logistically - I mean, I would have invited a TON of people to our housewarming party BUT I don;t feel comfortable inviting some of them to our wedding.
So, I am confused, which will lead to more talks to Tom, although he has discussed it with his mom, and she supports the idea. What do I do?!